Happy Singles Awareness Day!
Singles Awareness Day. One of the many new names developed in the 21st Century to describe one of the most loved and hated holday's of the year; Valentines Day. I myself, have never had a Valentine, and at 21 years old, I guess you could say that I am a little bit salty about it.
The other day I was having a casual conversation with my mother about it and I kid you not, this is what she said (I am paraphrasing); "Valentine's Day isn't that special, I'd much rather spend a day celebrating our anniversary with your father. That's our day. We don't share it with everyone else". Fair enough but... Can you fucking not! Boo hoo, you've had a Valentine for the last 23-years and Dad still buys you flowers every year; it must be so difficult for you!
I know what everyone's going to say. "You're so young, don't worry". I'm not worried, I'm annoyed. Not so much that I don't have a valentine, but the fact that I've never had one. I've never had that experience and when you see everyone else go through it, you get a little disheartened. Doing things by yourself is great, but when there's a whole holiday dedicated to celebrating with your 'other half', you have every right to be a little upset.
On a positive note though, I love how this generation has also turned this day into the opportunity to celebrate with all your Gal Pals for what we like to call, Galentines Day. A lot of organisations use it as a way to raise money for various charities. So if you havn't heard of it, I highly suggest looking into it for next year. Turn Singles Awareness Day into Galentines Day. Grab the wine, the ice-cream and a trashy movie and try and find some way to enjoy this day other that being alone. Do NOT make the same mistake I did this year. Turn you sorrows into smiles!
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